Looks like this here may be one of probably few controversial issues that I write about. I just read about Thomas Beatie, a pregnant um . . . man who lives in the US. Thomas is expecting a baby girl next month. Now, does anyone else see this as a bit twisted? Yeah yeah, I know that any person can do what they like to their body, but doesn't that just mean piercings, tatoos, boob jobs, penis enlargment, lipo, etc? Those things I can understand, but what this girl , this absolutley gorgeous girl, did to her body because she was in love with another woman and the law where she lived did not allow same sex marriages? I think it is outrageous. Go be in love somewhere else where you don't have to torture your body. Now, I absolutely refuse to call Thomas a man. I don't care how many surgeries, pills or whatever you have had done, if you were born a woman, your ARE a woman. I don't care. People all over are calling her a him. Where are you brains? How do you think it's ok to call her a him. SHE'S HAVING A BABY WITH HER LEFT OVER REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS PEOPLE. SHE ISN'T A MAN! I also believe that having a child is a natural part of what a woman wants, hence the reason she kept her reproductive organs, not what any human being wants.
I am just baffled at how you explain this to a child. Why would any person want to put themselves through this? No matter what sex you change to, your are still going to have the same urges that you would had you never done anything at all. It makes no sense to me. I can't imagine all of the things that this little girl will be ridiculed for and have to go through. What would they have done had it been a boy? I'm not a man, but I doubt that she knows what it is really like to be a man. You can say you are happy and confident in your new sexuality, but you will never truly know. I personally know that once my son, if I have one, hits a certain age I won't know what to do. I won't have the answers to his questions or know how to handle certain situations for him. I will get uncomfortable giving him a bath after a certain age. I know there are plenty of single moms out there who manage but I am glad that I have a husband who will be able to help me through this. Wouldn't it have just been easier to move to a state where it was allowed and then deal with that instead. I think its a lot harder for a child to understand a sex change than two mommies or daddies.
Before I end, let's get one thing straight just incase I get a few harsh words. I have a few friends involved with another of the same sex and I still love them. I absolutely do not agree with their lifestyle, but that does not change the person that I have grown to love and trust. Things like this are based on opinions and beliefs and my beliefs are with God. There is a level of respect that should be paid to all people you know and their beliefs. My beliefs are that you can love another man if you are a man, or another woman if you are a woman, but you cannot lay with them like you would your spouse of the opposite sex. Changing your entire body is just completely out of line. I believe that marriage is a sacred thing only to be exchanged between a man and a woman . . . with all the proper organs they had from birth.
I am just baffled at how you explain this to a child. Why would any person want to put themselves through this? No matter what sex you change to, your are still going to have the same urges that you would had you never done anything at all. It makes no sense to me. I can't imagine all of the things that this little girl will be ridiculed for and have to go through. What would they have done had it been a boy? I'm not a man, but I doubt that she knows what it is really like to be a man. You can say you are happy and confident in your new sexuality, but you will never truly know. I personally know that once my son, if I have one, hits a certain age I won't know what to do. I won't have the answers to his questions or know how to handle certain situations for him. I will get uncomfortable giving him a bath after a certain age. I know there are plenty of single moms out there who manage but I am glad that I have a husband who will be able to help me through this. Wouldn't it have just been easier to move to a state where it was allowed and then deal with that instead. I think its a lot harder for a child to understand a sex change than two mommies or daddies.
Before I end, let's get one thing straight just incase I get a few harsh words. I have a few friends involved with another of the same sex and I still love them. I absolutely do not agree with their lifestyle, but that does not change the person that I have grown to love and trust. Things like this are based on opinions and beliefs and my beliefs are with God. There is a level of respect that should be paid to all people you know and their beliefs. My beliefs are that you can love another man if you are a man, or another woman if you are a woman, but you cannot lay with them like you would your spouse of the opposite sex. Changing your entire body is just completely out of line. I believe that marriage is a sacred thing only to be exchanged between a man and a woman . . . with all the proper organs they had from birth.
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